Is your brain in others’ control ?
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Friends ! In our daily life we encounter situations in which we have to react appropriately. Someone apprise us about our accomplishments and we get happy. When someone criticize us we get angry or depressed. So our reactions depends on others choice how others drive us. Most people among us do same in our day to day life.
Now think! we meet at least ten person daily and our mood changes with ten different view points daily. We become victimized easily by others agenda.
Successful people drive themselves with their own priorities and goals in their life. Such people never give their brain in others control.
What you have to do for your freedom of mood?
We try to meet person who keeps us happy by false praise. In this way often we get exploited by others. Our such act of choosing contact , is just an escape from our weaknesses.We need to face the challenge and meet people irrespective of our good or bad experience with them.To prevent our mood change by interaction we need to inculcate emotional intelligence. For this we should start to see everything objectively. To see a comment objectively do ‘why’ ‘why’ analysis. This analysis is applicable in many fields.
Suppose you met a person who commented and tried to change your mood.
Think why he said so? Find answer! If you got your answer, then again ask ‘why’ for your answer yourself. get the answer of the second’ why’. Again you ask question for your second answer, the third ‘why’. Now you got the correct reason of his comment. Now you understood his mind.
Similar question you should ask yourself. Why I am getting angry ?or why I am getting happy?
Such act needs patience and practice. But when you mastered this art your mind is no longer in others control. You drive yourself with your own will without any affection and your EQ gets boosted up and you succeed in life without any hurdle or loss of energy.no one can affect you and you can affect everyone.
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Friends ! In our daily life we encounter situations in which we have to react appropriately. Someone apprise us about our accomplishments and we get happy. When someone criticize us we get angry or depressed. So our reactions depends on others choice how others drive us. Most people among us do same in our day…
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